do not “drop the t”

The country is again at an historical impasse. Another ideology has surged and it’s way beyond the line of discrimination, bigotry, and segregation. How do we, as the human race, not understand that the more we segregate each other into smaller groups, the more we lose our humanity? When will the segregation end? We are one human race, not a juxtaposition of smaller and smaller groups divided by simplistic characteristics.

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I Don’t Believe in Same Sex Marriage

I don’t believe in marriage. At least not in what it means today. I believe in the original belief of it, of what it represented back then.
Back in the day marriage was an actual, respectful, and much needed belief.

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quick to judge

It’s October and we see people every day and wonder if they’re wearing their Halloween costume. How judgmental are we?

The sad truth we all do it. We tell ourselves that we don’t and we honestly don’t do it on purpose or with ill intent, unless we catch ourselves we wouldn’t know that we do. It’s human nature pure and simple.

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men can be raped

It’s true. Men can be raped by other men. And they don’t like it. Why would they? Rape is not sex.

Contrary to popular belief, men don’t want sex all the time. Men do not think about sex 24/7. Men have feelings of vulnerability too. Men are human. So when you hear that a man was raped, know that he was hurt, betrayed, traumatized, and destroyed just a woman would be…

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not all gays are smart

not all gays are smart

Contrary to popular belief, not all gays are geniuses.  At least that was the belief for me growing up. I’m serious. I don’t know where people got this misconception. I’ve heard it all my life. That’s 30+ years of me being the smart one. If you look at some of the media from the 80’s they portrayed gays as either extremely effeminate or extremely smart. They were my role models.

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